15.09.2023 — 3 MIN READ
Wedding Vows That Will Leave Everyone Shedding Tears of Joy
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Exchanging wedding vows is one of the most heartwarming moments in any nuptial celebration. It’s the perfect chance to bare your soul to your partner, holding nothing back. We know from firsthand experience that, despite the love you may have for your significant other, it’s often no walk in the park to put those feelings down on paper, sum them up in a three-minute speech, and keep your guests both engaged and moved.
So, in this article, we’re not just giving you the tried-and-true tips for penning vows that will tug at everyone’s heartstrings; we’re also helping you sidestep the common pitfalls that could muck up this special moment.
Leave it to the Eleventh Hour to Write Your Vows
You might think we’ve gone completely bonkers, but contrary to what you might assume, waiting until the last minute is actually a brilliant move. The impending wedding can offer you an emotional clarity you wouldn’t otherwise have. It’s a time when your feelings are running high, which can be the best source of inspiration.
Mind you, “last minute” doesn’t mean five minutes before you walk down the aisle; give your vows the time and space they deserve. Our advice? Pop over to a lovely, quiet café you adore, whip out a pen and paper old-school style, take a deep breath, and pour out all the love you have for your partner.
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Brainstorm Your Thoughts
Trust us on this one, it’s a game-changer: Before you even start writing, make a list of everything you want to include. What makes you head over heels for your partner? What are the most magical moments you’ve shared? Organize your thoughts and use this list as a blueprint for your vows. Don’t fret about crafting complete sentences; just brainstorm away, and you’ll have plenty of time to flesh it out later.
Don’t Waffle On
Remember, less is more. You’re not reciting War and Peace here. Keep your vows short and sweet. Aim for the perfect vows to last between 2-3 minutes; anything more and you’re missing the mark.
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Don’t Be Afraid to Get Soppy
This is the moment to wear your heart on your sleeve. If there’s ever a time and place to be a bit mushy, this is it. Don’t worry about what others might think; your vows are primarily for you and your partner. For instance, you can include lines from TV shows or snippets of songs that only you and your partner know the significance of. At the end of the day, it’s your wedding. The golden rule is to be authentic and true to yourself.
Don’t Try to Be a Stand-Up Comedian
A dash of humour is all well and good, but tread carefully. The last thing you want is to turn this poignant moment into a comedy sketch. If you’re going to throw in a joke, make sure it’s one that your partner will also find amusing.
Practice Out Loud
Once you’ve penned those vows, read them out loud multiple times. Not just to get them off by heart, but to make sure they don’t sound like an IKEA assembly manual. This will also allow you to tweak any phrases that come across as awkward or forced.
If you’ve made it this far into the article, it’s clear you’re at a bit of a loss and worried about botching the whole thing. But remember, something that comes from the heart can never be wrong, so just relax and be yourself.
We’re confident that if you follow these tips, you’ll craft vows that will bring even the toughest cookie to tears. Are you ready to leave everyone gobsmacked?